Every time I use the word ‘Have to’ I am saying I would rather not be where I am right now and doing what I am doing at this moment. If I keep thinking in this way in one area of my life, it becomes a habitual thought pattern, which soon turns up in my attitude everywhere in my life. Let me transform any reluctance in my life today by re-affirming my choices. I, the soul, make choices about where I am and what I do.